We cannot go on living in a fantasy world
Aung San Suu Kyiback in 1999:
Don’t take everything that you can get or everything that is given to you. Benefit will only be derived if you use everything you get honestly. Our country will suffer if we spend easily what is easily got. The giving will not continue.”
This is a very explicit acknowledgement of the bonds that gifts produce, and why RECEIVING is not always the best thing to do. Freedom comes from the ability to give, not the ability to receive.
At the end of chapter five in “The Gift” Hyde warns against this in using the example of a university unwilling to receive a donation from a dictator. To receive is to establish the bond, to attach strings. In Chapter six of “The Gift,” called “The Gift Community” Hyde buries a gem of a quote in a note to a discussion on the polarity of the individual and the community:
Great article. I found the correct link which is
http://www.dassk.com/contents.php?id=29 (not .org)
or
http://dassk.org/index.php/topic,800.0.html
thanks