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An interview on the Tao of Holding Space

May 10, 2022 By Facilitation, Featured, First Nations, Open Space One Comment

Years ago I wrote a little book called the Tao of Holding Space which was an interpretation of the Tao te Ching as applied to Open Space Technology and the facilitation of other participatory practices.

Annick Corriveau is an Open Space Facilitator and she interviewed me a couple of months ago about my nearly 30 year history with Open Space Technology and the origins of this little book. She has a series of interviews with OST practitioners that are well worth checking out.

You can download the book for free from the Internet Archive in English or in Chinese or be in touch directly to purchase a copy of the published version that my friend Mark Busse championed.

Noticing what has stopped

May 9, 2022 By Being, Bowen, Featured 4 Comments

A red breasted nuthatch sitting on a tree trunk.

One of the birds that lives on our island and can be heard almost year round is the red-breasted nuthatch. These little birds call out with a soft “meep-meep-meep’ and spend most of their time upside down on trees trucks and seed cones. Around here they are common all year round.

Except this year. I haven’t heard a nuthatch for months. On the back of a record wet autumn and winter with some record cold spells and a persistent Lan Niña effect keeping the ocean cool, I wonder what is going on. Red-breasted nuthatches are ubiquitous in our forest and now they are silent. I don’t know why. I’m a bit worried actually.

As I was out this morning listening for one, it occured to me that it isn’t easy to spot what is not there, and what has stopped happening. It’s easy to be seduced by the presence of the Townsend Warblers who have been singing in the morning for the last few weeks. But to notice things that aren’t there, you need to have a more deeply embedded sense of place, have lived through multiple repetitions and iterations and know the rhythms to be able to see what isn’t there and what has stopped. I’m not sure I can even remember the last time I heard a nuthatch.

As a consultant coming in to work with organizations and communities I have to remind myself that what I see in front of me isn’t the whole story. People often ask questions like “Who isn’t here?” and “What aren’t we doing?” but I can’t remember every asking, “What has stopped happening, or hasn’t happened in a while that surprises or concerns you?” I’ll have to start.

There is much that is unseen, much that has stopped. Am I talking to the people who are embedded enough in the context to notice that? Are we entranced by the latest creative initiative such that we don’t know when certain things stopped happening. In healthy organizations, does anyone remember when the painful interactions stopped? Does anyone remember why?

In a world that is transient with attention and rootedness in place, we lose the capacity to notice what is strangely absent. Make sure you work with people who can tell you both what is present and what is absent. We are losing many things that are important. Can we notice when they stopped and why?

What’s in the Parking Lot? #1

May 8, 2022 By Links 5 Comments

Back when I began this blog I called it “Parking Lot” which is a term in the facilitation world used for the list of things that we need to talk about at some point but just can’t get to right now. Now that I’m returning to the blog world I thought I would make a regular list of the things that have been accumulating in my own parking lot. So each time that list reaches ten, I’ll share them here.

Here’s the first bunch.

  1. My buddy Tenneson Woolf shares a stab at Slice of LIfe writing, which is intriguing.
  2. A surprisingly gripping scene from Mad Max 3 called The Tell of Captain Walker, in which an oral history in a post-apocalyptic world is recited. (h/t to What’s The Pont who shared it as an example of oral history dynamics.)
  3. Patricia Shaw shares a short and very clear talk on the characteristics of a good leader from a dialogic perspective. Again, surprisingly gripping and helpfully simple.
  4. Matt Webb with a lovely meditation on online identity.
  5. My foodie neighbours Rob and Laurel went to India about ten years ago to spend six months documenting their learning about Indian food and they kept a great travel blog which has many many excellent recipes. Long before there were great food blogs, there was this great blog about food.
  6. Interesting paper published in Nature which studies how virtual engagement affects brainstorming and idea generation. There is much that is good about moving online but it does seem to come at a cost. And now that cost is being researched. (h/t the MeetingsNet blog).
  7. In a short twitter thread, Professor Emily Bell traces some of the jurisprudence behind the Supreme Court of the United States draft decision overturning abortion rights, and finds it rooted in the opinions of Matthew Hale, a 17th century English jurist who executed women for witchcraft and whose decision have been used to justify marital rape. Just in case you thought the pending decision wasn’t medieval enough on its own.
  8. Thomas Piketty reimagines socialism as a participatory and intersectional recalibration of power: Long LIve Participatory Socialism! (h/t Allison Creekside on twitter).
  9. Manali Shah shares a short but moving piece on the activation of our sense as we return to in-person meetings.
  10. My friend Sonja Blignaut discusses thresholds in writing and in a lovely podcast interview. It’s lovely to hear her voice flowing and expanding into the ideas and practice that have long been adjacent to the organizational complexity work that she has been doing for so long. Poetry, reflection and life, all coming together.

Life at the edges

May 8, 2022 By Being, Bowen, Featured, Flow, Practice 3 Comments

A Stellar's seal lion is sitting up straight while three others rest beside it on a dock.

My favourite places to walk are along coastal paths, preferably along cliff tops or wild shorelines. On my home island we have very few places where one can take an extended stroll along such a place as most of the shoreline is privatized and even though in Casnada all shore up to the high water mark is public right of way, much of the Nex?wlélex?wm/Bowen Island coast line is steep and rocky and access to the intertidal zone is restricted.

But there is a glorious walk along the shoreline at Cape Roger Curtis and it is my favourite place on the island. For about a kilometer and a half, the trail winds along the shoreline, part of it even crossing a cantilevered boardwalk, pinned into a sliff side maybe 20 meters about the rocky shore below. From that trail, it is common to see marine mammals such as seals and sea lions, and I have spotted harbour porpoises, killer whales and even a humpback whale from the trail.

in living systems the most important and interesting zones are the ecotones, the place where two ecosystems meet. This tends to be where the most life is. Where the forest meets the sea is a rich area of nutrition and growth. And Cape Roger Curtis is doubly special and edgy becasue it is the point where Atl’ka7tsem/Howe Sound meets the Strait of Georgia which makes up the half of the main body of water that is the Salish Sea. It is here that currents swirl and meet, with the salty ocean water meeting the fresher water that flows from the glacier and streams that rise above our inlet. The coastla trail winds down the west side of the island, around the Cape and along the south shore, which in the Squamish language is called Ni7cháy?ch Nex?wlélex?wm, a name which captures the edges of the forest and the sea, which is also the edge of Squamish territory. From here on out is the big wide world.

Today that churning seas with its 4 meter tides is nurturing schools of anchovy and herring which have draw sea lions back for their annual feed. They have been hauling out in large number on one of the unused docks at the Cape over the past several years. At times there are as many as thirty around – especially when the Biggs Killer Whales are out hunting them – but today there where only four or five. Offshore there was a large raft of surf scoters, number 5-600, and gulls and cormorants were similarly hunting and diving into schools of these rich feed fish. In the nearby forest townsend warblers and song sparrows were calling, while in the skies above a battle was raging between a pair of ravens and an eagle. It appeared as if the eagle’s appetite had disrupted the ravens’ family plans and they were angry.

Much of my spiritual practice comes through a tradition of monastic and contemplative practice that was formed in places like this, on the edges of continents, on the edges of territories, on the ecotones between the known world and the mysterious beyond. It is a place where the heart is awakened and the senses sharpened, and the power of the natural world is so strong that it overwhelms the temporary intrusion of a human.

What Do You Say to a Thinking Forest?

May 8, 2022 By Being, Bowen, Complexity

For Mother’s Day, have a read of Crawford Killian’s new piece in The Tyee about fungi and forests as he charts his learning about mushrooms, trees, and fungal networks through disbelief to reverent awe.

Our common mother is so much more than we can ever understand.

Read: Why fungi are more sophisticated than we can imagine thetyee.ca/Culture/2022/05/06/What-Do-You-Say-To-Thinking-Forest/